Violet Rose Sharp was born April 5, 1916, on her parents’ homestead at Norris, South Dakota, the fourth of five children born to Charley and Minnie (Rohm) Sharp. She lived through the depression years where she learned sharing, hard work, and appreciation of people. The family milked cows , raised a big garden, hauled water with a stonebolt from a well a mile from home to cook and wash clothes. Her family was kind and thoughtful, everyone was welcome at their home to eat and sleep. Even though they were poor, they were rich in kindness. Vi carried that philosophy through her life. Love and kindness was her “motto”, which she taught to all her grandchildren, and they have learned well.
Violet was united in marriage to Bryan Everett Marlow on September 1, 1937, in Rapid City. They raised two sons Lyle and Marv. She and Bryan owned and operated several cafes in Kadoka, and she worked as a waitress in many cafes over the years, where she kept everything immaculate. Vi boarded children, whom she loved each and every one very much, and kept in touch with them yet. She cooked for several years making delicious meals for W.A.V.I. and retired at 85 years of age.
Survivors include her son Marvin of Rapid City; his daughters Misti Becker and her husband Brent and their daughter Brooke; Bobbie Blumer and her husband Chad and their daughter Makenzie; Michelle Bilger and her husband Wade and their children Kiersten, Jaedyn, and Laicey; and grandson Lee McCurrin; daughter in-law Kay Marlow of Orlando, Florida; and grandchildren Steve Marlow and his wife Kerry and their son Tyler; Tom Marlow and his son Matthew; Shaan Jensen and her husband Scott and their daughter Adrienne; Reeni Davis and her husband Jimmie and their daughters Jasmine and Melody; and Wendi Marlow and children Channing, Austin, Tanner, and Maddie; one sister Eva Holcomb of The Dalles, Oregon; and a host of other relatives and friends.
She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Violet was preceded in death by her husband Bryan Everett Marlow on September 27, 1978; her son Lyle Marlow; one sister Lois Stone; and two brothers Dwight Sharp and Lester Sharp.
Visitation was held 10 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. on Monday, at the Concordia Lutheran Church.
Funeral services were held 1:00 p.m. Monday, August 24, at the Concordia Lutheran Church in Kadoka, with Pastor John Mapa and Pastor Art Weitschat officiating.
Interment was in the Kadoka Cemetery.
A memorial is established.
FUNERAL SERVICES
Monday, August 24, 2009 - 1:00 p.m.
Concordia Lutheran Church
Kadoka, South Dakota
CLERGY
Pastor Art Weitschat
MUSIC
Organist - Randy Oyan
Vocalist - Verna Mae Sharp
"Old Rugged Cross"
"Wings Of A Dove"
PALLBEARERS
Jerry Sharp - Vern Richardson
Reed Richardson - Perry Guptill
Owen Ferguson - Jerry Lurz
HONORARY PALLBEARERS
All Relatives and Friends in Attendance
INTERMENT
Kadoka Cemetery
Kadoka, South Dakota
Guest Book
Bobbie and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. I know how much she was loved and how much she will be missed. She will always be with you in spirit, and in your hearts and memories.
~ Sally Haubrich
Rapid City, SD (8/19/2009)
Everyone who enjoyed a meal in downtown Kadoka in the 50's & 60's was well acquainted with Vi's talents in serving up delicious food in her mainstreet cafe... "Vi's Brownies" were a special after school treat for the students of Kadoka High School, and only cost a nickel; they were available at the Dacotah Hotel too. She also made sure there was fresh hot popcorn for the movie theater located on main street. Vi's legacy lives on in the history books of Kadoka.....and may God Bless her journey.
~ Mike & Judy Barber
Tampa, Fl (8/19/2009)
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Vi's death. I am so happy I had a chance to get to know her. What a kind, sweet lady. One day I stopped by her apartment and she was holding a baby diaper up with a big X on the front. She told me she had to get those things figured out so she could babysit her new great grandbaby! She loved her family. She also would tell me about the many meals she made for then. They would all come over one night each week for mom's cooking. It reminds me of the many meals I have shared with my family. Hold your memories of Vi close to your heart. May she rest in peace. Stacy
~ Stacy Dole, Adult Srevices
Rapid City (8/19/2009)
Thank you to everyone that came up to see my grandma at the hosipital and to the nurses that took care of her. She said that they treated her like a queen. She was having a fit that everyone was making such a fuss over her. To us, she was a queen. She was my best friend and I am going to miss her so much. I will cherish every moment that I got to spend with her. My sister Misti said that we are spoiled because of the time that we had with her and all of the things that she did for us and with us. I think we are the luckiest kids in the world to have had her has our grandma. Grandma, I love you so much and miss you!!!
~ Bobbie Blumer
Rapid City, SD (8/19/2009)
Well said Bobbi- I second that. The nurses on Gram's floor were awesome- thank-you so much to all of you!
I guess I think of Gram as my "Rock". She is someone who made a difference in my life starting when I was a little girl in diapers. If she hadn't of stepped in when she did I cringe to think of where I would of ended up. The sacrifices she made for me and my brothers are overwhelming. She always acted like it was no big deal. That is just the way she was.
As an adult she has continued to guide me. She would never pass judgement on me. She just had a way of letting you know that maybe you weren't making the best of choices. I am really going to miss her gentle guidance.
Gram did spoil us rotten as grandchildren. Not in a material way but in the way that she loved us. How lucky we have all been to share her philosohy in life.
For the last how many years we have alternated visits between South Dakota and Washington State I will cherish all my memories with the card games, sticky buns, (she not only makes good brownies, her sticky buns are THE BEST!), buying her Mountain Dew, sight seeing around our states and just hanging out with family.
We actually got her to board the 1880 train a couple of weeks ago in Keystone when we were visiting her. We couldn't quite figure if she really wanted to go. After talking to her it came out that in her 93 years she had always wanted to go but... it was just too expensive. My husband, Scott heard that and decided that no matter what else we did, we were going to Board that train. It happened to be the week of the Sturgis Rally, I had to hold on to my Gram's walker to keep up with her so I wouldn't loose her with all the bikers. That is just the way she led her life... nothing was going to hold her back nor was she going to hold anyone up.
I AM SURE GONNA MISS HER!
~ Shaan Marlow Jensen
Yakima, WA (8/19/2009)
Shaan, Steve, Tom and families: My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Vi was the 'grandma' in the neighborhood when I was little. She always had something for to do and lots of patience! Cherish your memories.
~ Rose Ann (Stratton) Wendell
Pierre (8/19/2009)
We knew Violet through her granddaughter Bobbi Blumer. She was a great person. We enjoyed visiting her and with her family on many occassions at Bobbi and Chads house. We know she will be greatly missed. Please except our condolances and our thoughts and prayers will be with you in the coming days.
~ Don and Sandra Williams
Collinsville, TX (8/19/2009)
Marv and Family Sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom
Phillip Rogers
~ Phillip Rogers
Rapid City (8/19/2009)
I was so shocked to hear of Vi's death. I'm glad I was able to know Vi. She was a very caring and sweet lady. I will miss seeing her every week. She always spoke of her family every week when I saw her. She loved her family very much. She would always tell how much she enjoyed her family coming over every week for dinner. Also the many things they would do with her family. She had told me many stories over the years. She will be greatly missed by all that had knew her. She had touch many lives. My her love hold all of you close. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. May she rest in peace.
~ Karen Ketchum - Interim HealthCare
Rapid City, SD (8/19/2009)
I was so saddened to hear of Vi's passing. She was a beautiful person. Cherish your memories.
~ Chloe Wiginton
Colbert, Ok. (8/19/2009)
Marv
We are so sorry to hear about your Mom. She was a great lady and will be dearly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
~ Rod & Darlene Cudmore
Fort Pierre SD (8/19/2009)
Will miss her greatly. She was a very nice and caring person throughout. Our prayers are with you Marv and family, she will be missed by all. Zeke Stone
~ Jerome "Zeke" Stone
Las Vegas Nevada (8/19/2009)
Misti, we are so sorry to hear about your grandma. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Kelly and Kelley Le Beaux
~ Kelly Longstaff
Rapid City, SD (8/19/2009)
Steve, Tom, Shaan,
Your grandmother was such a wonderful woman. I remember playing over there as a child and always felt so welcome. She truly was the best grandma on the block to so many kids! My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time, she will always be in your hearts and mine.
~ Janice (Hoffman) Johnson
Pierre, SD (8/19/2009)