Jessica R. Grimes

of Kadoka, South Dakota, died on Sunday, April 9, 2006
east of Kadoka, as a result of an automobile accident at the age of 17

Jessica Ray Grimes was born December 9, 1988 in Rapid City, South Dakota, the daughter of Jerry and Merilee (Josserand) Grimes. She grew up on a ranch southeast of Kadoka and attended Kadoka Elementary and Kadoka High School, where she was an honor student, member of National Honor Society and a Student Council Officer and selected as Student of the Month.

She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends and helping the ranchers in the neighborhood.

To say the least, she was competitive in many areas. She was a state level competitor in rodeo, basketball, and track. Jessica treasured most the bonds and friendships that came from these activities. One of her most cherished accomplishments was receiving the Cy Porch Memorial Bible at Rodeo Bible Camp.

Grateful for having shared her life include her parents Jerry and Merilee Grimes of Kadoka; a sister Stacy Green and her husband Tucker, and their son Lane all of Box Elder; two brothers Levi Grimes and his wife Elissa and their children Jackson and Jordan, all of Kadoka, and Austin Grimes and his wife Jessica Jean of Kearney, Nebraska; her paternal grandfather Louie Grimes of Kadoka; her maternal grandparents Orville and Shirley Josserand of Kadoka; an uncle Tom Grimes of Kadoka; two aunts Jeanie Kingsbury and her husband John and their daughter Megan of Pine Island, Minnesota , and Coleen McHolland and her husband Matt and their children Lauren and Lindsay of Fall Brook, California; her best friend Luke VanderMay of Kadoka; and a host of other relatives and friends.

Jessica was preceded in death by her paternal grandmother Elsie V. Grimes.

The strength of her personality and character has had a greater impact on friends and family than her years would indicate.

Visitation was held from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, April 11, at the Presbyterian Church in Kadoka.

Funeral services were held 2:00 p.m. Wednesday, April 12, at the Kadoka City Auditorium, with Pastor Gary McCubbin officiating.

Interment was in the Kadoka Cemetery.

FUNERAL SERVICES
Wednesday, April 12, 2006 2:00 p.m.
Kadoka City Auditorium
Kadoka, South Dakota
CLERGY
Pastor Gary McCubbin
MUSIC
Prelude / Postlude Music by
Jake Elwood – Guitarist
Service music by
Carl Bauman – Boyd Porch – John Kaiser
USHERS
Alan Badure – Kenny Fox
John Bauman – Steve Williams
PALLBEARERS
Joe Stoddard – Mark Williams
Richard Jobgen – Rodney Sharp
Chris Elwood – Charles VanderMay
HONORARY PALLBEARERS
All the Students of Kadoka High School
All Relatives and Friends in Attendance
INTERMENT
Kadoka Cemetery
Kadoka, South Dakota

Service Details

FUNERAL SERVICES
Wednesday, April 12, 2006 2:00 p.m.
Kadoka City Auditorium
Kadoka, South Dakota

Guest Book

February 11, 2008
Spent some time this weekend looking through photos of you and your friends. They put it together on Facebook. Everyone misses you. We miss what would have been for you and what would have been for all of us with you. Missing you so much teaches us to love each other more. I sometimes look up at the stars and ask for more wisdom in dealing with everything down here. You're my star and I do miss you very much. Love you always & forever.
   ~ February 11, 2008 . (4/9/2006)
Jess I hope your doing well in that special place were your at. I love you Jess
   ~ Jan 4, 2008 . (4/9/2006)
It's December 9th. It's your birthday, Jess. Thinking of you all weekend. It hasn't been easy. Have to keep my mind on helping others in need. That seems to be the best thing we all can do to share the beauty of the upcoming holidays as well as share what it feels like losing you. There's so much hope all around us, and yet we sometimes do feel hopeless. All of us miss you and wish you were here. Everyday. But esp. today I want you to know I'm thinking of you.
   ~ December 9, 2007 . (4/9/2006)
November 23, 2007
Another Thanksgiving has come & gone. OH, HOW YOU'RE MISSED. There's no describing what we all feel as the season's change once again and the various holidays roll around. An emptiness for sure at times, but we all know that's not what you would want us to feel. Wish things could be different and I think how they would have been. I've been thinking of you a lot this month and wherever you are you're sure missed a lot and we're looking forward to that day when we're all together. Love You Dear One. So Very Much. Coleen & family
   ~ Coleen and Family . (4/9/2006)
November 3, 2007
"Look for and Expect Small Miracles." They do happen. There are angels among us, and Jessica and Will "God's Will" (our little boy we lost 8 weeks ago) are two of those angels.
   ~ Coleen (Herber) Letellier PO Box 13, Hulett, WY 82720 (4/9/2006)
9/20/2007
They say time heals the heart; however, today is just as difficult as the day this journey began. Jess will always be apart of many people's lives. When they think of the memories with her they will smile, they will cry. We are all so very proud of who she was and what she lived. There will never be another Jess, I just thank God that he blessed my life with the presence of her. When I think of Jess, I think of her golden locks of hair, her bright shinning blue eyes, her smile. She will always be apart of all of us. Jess, one day we will all see you again but until then know that you will always live on day to day in the lives of your family and friends. We love you!
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
8/19/2007
SOMETIMES I look at photos of you and that makes me smile. SOMETIMES I turn up a special song that makes me cry.
MANY TIMES I go outside & watch a sunrise or sunset. Or sit in wonder how the stars sparkle in the heavens on a hot August night...... and know you're part of everything we do.
But MOST OF ALL.....and ALL THE TIME we carry you in our heart and we remember YOU.
I LOVE YOU & MISS YOU.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
July 16, 2007
Jess,
After today I appreciate you more than I ever have.
Thanks for being by my side, to guide me and give me strength
God bless you are such a good angel.
THANKS
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
July 16, 2007
I miss you SO much....I LOVE YOU
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
July 3, 2007
Every day I think of you Jess.
You touched so many lives in your short time here with us.
I miss you so much, as so many do. Each day my heart aches for you, your companionship, your friendship. But as each day passes I am becoming more thankful for all that you taught me and of the way you touched so many lives in such a positive way. What a legacy.
Life indeed on earth is short; it is unfortunate that it was you that was chosen to go before us. But then again I also realize that with God all things are great. I feel your spirit guide me thru the days. As we struggle with the daily routines you are there, by us. Cheering us on, leading the way for that I am grateful.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
Jess
I miss you today and am thinking of you...
Love you
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
June 6, 2007
I carry you with me every day. In a song I hear that I know you liked or simply outside enjoying what God gave us. Lindsay's got me listening to Nickleback and I think of you too. Where does the time go? You'll just simply always be with us as we continue on day after day...looking forward as well back. Our hearts have already broken so many times there's nothing left but to let them mend and share good times with the people YOU loved, all your family & friends. Sure means a lot what you left for us by living your life filled with love & caring and a smile that we'll never forget. You gave us all so many precious moments. These are a little of what we hang onto and carry around in our hearts. Makes us better people for sure. So thanks for everything and I'll do my best today. Always thinking of you and wishing for everybody else that's missing you too that we do live better for getting to have you in our lives. You'll always be with us and we simply have to look up and keep our hearts open to allow love & the peace that passeth all understanding to go to work in our lives. What a special child and gift from God you have been and will remain. You will be with us ALWAYS. We're forever changed for the better and will forever cherish what time we had with you. God has taken you home, but we're not left alone if we realize that God is everywhere and you are now with God. You'll be forever in our hearts. Love you, Coleen
   ~ Coleen . (4/9/2006)
May 21, 2007
Graduation day...
If only we could have seen you graduate. I am wishing as well as so many others you could have been part of this day! We miss you so much. Our hearts yearn for your face-that smile-the blue eyes. Anything to make you feel next to us again. It was a hard day Jess, so hard. I hope you carry on through all your classmates hearts, as I know you will. I wish you all the peace and happiness you deserve. You're thought of so deeply everyday. Wish I could just give you one more hug. We miss you so much! We'll be thinking of you, as we always do.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
May 7, 2007
We all keep returning to this website for some comfort and to share our loss. It is a small thing and yet means so much to hear others' words echoing our own feelings. It touches my heart and has changed me to realize that all of us who lost Jess will never be the same again. And the only chance we have to make any sense out of this pain & loss is in all those little things we do & say in each of our lives each day that can make some small difference for someone else in need. I guess by knowing Jess and how she lived, maybe we all can strive to follow that example as best we can. We have that freedom of choice. To remember her and live better. She was a "big" person. Good heart, generous friend, thoughtful and kind. I want to wish all Jess's graduating class COURAGE as they face their futures. I'm hoping for all of you, and all of us that lost Jess to "remember her example" and SMILE, and do something nice for someone else......JUST BECAUSE.....it's what Jess would've done. Thank you Jessica Ray for the sunshine you bring into my day just remembering you. Love You, Coleen
   ~ Coleen . (4/9/2006)
April 24, 2007
Jess- I miss you so much and envy those who can say that they have so many good memories with you from basketball or rodeo bible camp, because we never got to see each other that much. Like everyone else, I miss your smile and your laugh and your wicked sense of humor (the 6 B's especially- we were so bad!), but more than anything else I miss knowing that I had a cousin who I got along with so well. What hurts the most is thinking about the years to come when we would have gotten married and had kids and been able to talk about the dumb things we did when we were young. I really don't know how everyone there in S.D. is coping when I'm out here feeling so....I can't find a word for it, but you know what I mean. You must have known how ppl felt about you when you were alive, because how could you not? You were wonderful at everything you did and it makes me sick to think what the world lost when you left. I wonder what your life would have been like. Where would you have
lived, what would you have done for a living, who would you have married? I remember going to Austin's wedding and hanging out with you at the reception and having a blast just b/c you were there with me and every time with you was a good one. You're on so many minds and in so many hearts everyday and I just wish that I knew for sure whether or not you know that wherever you are now. Thanksgiving wasn't easy, Christmas wasn't easy, Easter wasn't easy. We all miss you so much, but thank God we have the memories b/c they are what help us deal with it. If i could have just one single hour to talk to you in person, I would talk to you about every memory i have with you and we would laugh till we cried. I've been reading other people's messages on this site so i'm well aware that this message is far from being normal or even making much sense, but i wanted to write it to you b/c i know that you would understand.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
April 19, 2007
It is hard to believe that a year has already passed. I can still remember one of the last days we hung out. We had one of our normal conversations...how we could not wait to graduate. Yeah we were only just getting done with prom and all but still, graduation...we were ready.
Now graduation is a month away...seems weird, you not being here to share that with me. This whole year has been a little weird, especially during basketball. it was hard not seeing you out there on that court. It has been hard not seeing you at school every day. Don't worry though, i kept our tradition alive in Mrs. Fugate's room. I sat in the same row we had sat in since we were freshmen. Even though it's weird not having you sitting in front of me.
I still miss you more every day and i think about you all the time. You were one of the best friends i have ever had. I miss you so much and i wish you were here. but i know that you are in a better place now. i can't wait to see you again one day. I love you always and forever...
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
April 10, 2007
Baby Jess,
I can't believe it's already been a year since you left us...i thought i had come to terms with it..I thought that I finally understood and that i could cope with it...but i was wrong...that same sick, sad, confused feeling in the pit of my stomach is back now just as it was a year ago...i know you wouldn't want me to be this way...but it's hard...i know that you're in a better place now..but it's just hard to understand i guess...i know you are up there watching over me...i just wanted to know if you could help me cope with this feeling that i have right now...it still seems like you should be here...but you aren't...i can't wait to see you again someday!! I love and miss you!!
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
April 9, 2007
I never knew Jess, but I've thought about her a lot over the past year, and especially today. I envy the life she lived. Not a perfect life, but a life lived with exuberance and joy and the gift of making everyone else feel important. There aren't many people with that combination. I find myself trying to achieve that because of Jessica. God's Blessing today and in the days to come.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
April 9, 2007
Wow, can't believe its already been a year. and they say that time eases all pain, but I miss you more and more each day. I went and visited you today. It made me cry just sitting there not being able to talk to you and you respond. I miss hanging out with you and I wish you were still here with us. You were the best ever. Even though you are gone it's good to think that you are happy up in heaven in Gods arms. I'm glad that someone still gets to hold you in their arms. I miss you SO much. I can not wait till I see you once again in heaven. I know you'll greet me with that big jess smile that you always had given everyone you knew! I love you Jess
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
April 9, 2007
One year today... I cannot believe it :(
I miss you so much. I think of you each day and all the memories we had, and also think of everyone else's memories. So many left for us to cherish. I hope it's great up there, you deserve the best. Wish I could just hug and squeeze you again. So please just know, even though I have to continue each day without you, you're NEVER forgotten and always thought of. I miss you Jess
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
April 9, 2007
I never knew how fast time could travel until we look back at April 9,2006 its already been a year since we loss you Jessica, hopefully you are doing great in heaven, maybe someday i will see that beautiful SMILE!!!

If Tears Could Build A Stairway,
And Memories A Lane,
I'd Walk Right Up To Heaven
And Bring You Home Again.
Author unknown
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
Dear Jessica,
I just want to tell you that I'm so happy you're in heaven today with Jesus. Sometimes, I can barely wait until it's my turn to come and be with you and Grandma Elsie and Jesus. I know you are better off being in heaven this Easter, because now you don't have to deal with the troubles and trials of life. The hard part, though, is that I miss seeing you. I can't wait to see you again; God knows when that will be. Love you always, Megan
   ~ Cousin Megan Pine Island, Minnesota (4/9/2006)
April 7, 2007
Hey Jess, Every time I write on your book it still feels like I'm talking to you. I think the time that always makes me laugh the most and I love to think about is when we were at Rodeo Bible Camp and we would hang out. I remember us in our bunks and I would be laying there bored and I would throw rocks at you and ask if you were awake and every time you would say, "g** damn t i'm still awake" and threw a rock back at me. And we would just start laughing and everybody would wake up and tell us to be quiet!!!! O Jess how everybody misses you so much. If you could have only realized how loved you are. It's been a really crappy year for us, but every time I'm having a hard time about something I just think about you and some how it always helps!!!~death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal~ Thanks for all the great times!!!!
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
April 7, 2007
Jess
It's been one year and a day since I last saw you. The last year sure has not been the same and has had its share of ups and downs. I always knew where to go or who to talk to when you were here, but now there is just a big empty hole. You were my best friend and were the BEST friend and guy could ask for. I loved your bright shiny smile and the way you lit up the room when you walked in, the way you made everybody laugh, smile and be cheerful. I just want you to know Jess the I love you and always will and with the help of my family, friends and god I will be ok until i get to see and talk to you again. I LOVE YOU
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
Saturday, April 7, 2007
Just woke up this morning needing another walk down memory lane. Have had so many already, but simply wanted & needed another one. They're what remains and I enjoy the remembering.

So I got up & made some coffee and poured a cup to watch the sun rise...and took that trip down memory lane. First let my mind wander to some beautiful places. She's there and wearing blue jeans and well worn boots sitting on a fallen tree & smiling at me. The meadow where she's at is very beautiful & peaceful and green. The sun is shining and a soft Spring breeze. It's a comfort to let my mind travel forward and find Jess. Then I drift back to when Jess was about first grade and she & Lindsay would call me "Pobs" and hold up their little hands like paws. Even Merilee got to be a Pob a time or two I'm sure. Just being around Lindsay & I brought out some real "special" behavior and it was always so easy to give Jess any little thing she wanted because she just never wanted or needed much of anything. Just a Giver. Simply a beautiful perfect child and a gift to all of us.

Then I moved on to remember the Easter I last spent there and lucky enough to have Jerry saddle a horse for me too and got to ride a bit with Jerry, Jess, Austin & Jessica Jean one morning to check cows and new calves. My memory here is of Jess jumping off her horse to quickly help me close a gate that looked a little too much for an old woman to put enough squeeze on. She NEVER, EVER made anyone....from Lindsay to an old Aunt like me feel anything but her love and companionship and always her quiet confidence and simply put "FRIENDSHIP". She included us all in her circle. And that was a privilege. And now the silent little tear fell from my eye onto my cheek and I'd promised myself I wasn't gonna do that.

But my trip wasn't over. We went shopping and on vacation. I'm thankful for the memories and snapshots my mind carries for me to pull her close and thank her for what she means to me. Jess has been a gift to us all and still is. In my memories the light shines from her eyes and her beautiful smile can just transform your day. NO WAY she wants us to suffer missing her. We miss you Jess for everything you gave us, meant to us, and blessed us just for knowing you, but we'll honor you by living our time here on earth by your example. Thank you dear child and there will be many more walks down memory lane and I'll cherish every one of them. Love You, Coleen
   ~ Coleen . (4/9/2006)
April 6, 2007
I sit here, wondering what Jess is doing at this very moment. Wondering what she would have been doing if she was still here with us. Assumingly she'd be getting her horse ready for Rodeo season which is coming up...but she's not here to do that anymore. Why did it have to be Jess? we all think that now and again, but I know why it was Jess...because only God takes the best. And with Jess us in Heaven he sure has one of the best people I have EVER known in my whole life. I love Jess a lot and wish she was still here with us, but she can't come back. I just wanted to tell you that I LOVE YOU so much and wish you were still here with us! love you always Baby Jess
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
April 1, 2007
It's now April, almost one year since Jess left us on that early April morning. Its hard to think that she has been gone that long. She has been missed a great deal. It's going to be hard this month and months to come. After a year I thought it would be easier knowing she was in a better place, but it is still SO hard. I loved her more than she ever knew. I can't wait to see Jess again. I love you Jess.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
March 31, 2007
Jessica I love you still and love you always. You always had a smile on your face and you always made my day. I would just be sitting there and then you would ask if I was bored and I would say I was, but not anymore because your here. I loved the way I saw you smile at Chuck and Janet's brandings and I just wish I could see it again. I miss you. I wish there was a way I could have you back and never leave us again. Losing you was bad enough and I just hope you are watching over us making sure that he don't take the lives of anyone else. I going to miss seeing your smile when you play with Kelsey, Katie, and Maraya and you won't be here to light up there faces. If I could put my hurt into words there wouldn't be enough paper in the world to put it on. All I know is that I miss you and I want you to come back and never leave. Everyone wants you back so come please.

From A Very Sad VanderMay Friend
   ~ VanderMay Friend . (4/9/2006)
March 27, 2007
Sitting here in the empty halls of school, thinking back how things were a year ago. We were busy planning prom and building it. the day we built prom was a fun day. Now this years juniors are experiencing the same thing. Now, a year later how can things have taken such a turn in life? Tomorrow is the Ag trip to Eagle Butte. Last year EB was our last ag trip and we sat on the bus together on the way home. Tomorrow I'm not sure how my first Ag trip will go without you. Im sure I'll survive like the girls did through basketball but it will seem empty thats for sure. Prom i am sure will have its ups and downs throughout the night as I'm sure many people will be thinking of you as well. And then comes the next week. and the ninth. a full year. Sometimes i wonder if the next sixty years of life will be as rough as the past one year of life has been. Is this how the rest of life will be? Many good days but all of a sudden a bad day sneaks up on us. Right now i hope you
are experiencing all the happiness granted through God's grace as im sure you are. I thank Him everyday for the last 17 years you were here with us. I await the day when i can finally meet you and give ya a friends embraceful hug. Thanks for all the good times buddy. i can only hope i make you proud everyday.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
It is still really hard to think of what has happened to Jess. I think about it a lot lately and I don't know why. Just thinking that it has been almost a year since the accident. I never got to tell Jess happy birthday, so happy belated birthday Jess. I miss you so much and it keeps getting harder but I know that soon the time will start easing the pain. I love you, Pam misses you, we all miss you.
   ~ Cassondra Terkildsen Belvidere, SD (4/9/2006)
I wanted this to be shared, as I found it and thought it was ever sweet and fitting. There will never be anyone to replace Jess, and we all sit here wondering why even yet today. I love her and miss her a ton.

The Love Of A Sister
by Begary

If love could change the way things are
you would live forever and go so far
You'd know that I am always there
That I'll always love you, I'll always care

But love can't change the way things are
Or stop your pain or mend your scars
I hope that love can let you know
Not to give up or ever let go

Even when you're not in sight
You're in my thoughts day and night
Love is what will keep you there
And make me thankful for all we share
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
I sit here and wonder how Jess is doing in Heaven, does she get to do the things she did when she was still alive? these questions just keep bugging me and makes me wish I knew the answer. I'm sure if Jess was still here she'd be happier than ever. She always had a smile on her face, that could make anyone's day good. Also I know she would be counting down the days with the rest of her senior class till graduation, and planning on life after high school. I wish every day Jess was still here to share this wonderful life with us. but we had her for 17 years and they were great. I just wanted you to know that I think about you EVERY day Jess..I love and miss you very greatly.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
I will always remember Jess. I have so many good memories with her. she loved to laugh and have a good time and that was the thing I loved the most about her. She always knew what to say to make me laugh. Basketball just isn't the same without her there. She always made everyone laugh and I really miss that. I will always remember and miss Jess. She made a difference in my life and i will never forget her.
   ~ Sammi Berry . (4/9/2006)
You remain in our thoughts and prayers daily, and thinking of you especially during the holidays. I hope prayers and cherished memories help you make it through one day at a time. I know you have a blue eyed angel by your side.
   ~ Jill Riggins . (4/9/2006)
Jessica Ray Grimes has been missed dearly and I know everyone will never forget that day. She was an inspiration to me and I wish that I could be just like her. She has made my day so many times and I wish that she could be here to make my bad days go to good. Christmas was just weird this year without her because she would always love getting her "candy grams". Out to the family, I love you guys and we will get through this but it will take along to get over it.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
JESS:
MERRY CHRISTMAS

This has been weird, getting ready for Christmas without you. Christmas has always been a happy time, but everybody has ups and downs in their feelings through the over busy and hectic Christmas season. You were always able to make the downs a lot smaller while making the ups even better. I miss that.
Christmas seems a lot more like Thanksgiving than Thanksgiving does to me. We get gifts. !!!GIFTS!!! Thanks for the gifts.
THE BIRTH OF JESUS!! What a gift. Gives us the confidence of knowing where you are and the comfort of knowing we can be with you again. What a gift!
Nice to receive, but in the middle of shopping for others it sometimes occurs to us that we actually like these people and what an important part of our lives they are.
You used to pick on me because whatever you gave me for a Christmas gift, I would save it till later because I liked the thought you gave it to me even more than I liked the gift. Kind of wish I had told you that. I have been thinking a lot lately and have realized that you have given me more and better gifts this year than ever.
You have given me love that we can share even in your absence from everywhere but my heart and my mind.
You have given me memories that are greater than anything I could possibly go buy or build. They sure do help me get through the tough times.
You have given me an understanding and appreciation for the love and support of my family that is far greater than it used to be, and helped me realize the importance of this.
You have given me the friendship, love, and support of the friends you left behind. This has been a gift that has helped me more than you can imagine.
At one time you thought about being a nurse. You would have made a good one. Even in your absence, I have been able to feel your presence when I needed it the most. You have done a better job than any nurse could have in the care and feeding of a heartbroken father. This has been an irreplaceable gift.
You have given me a better understanding of priorities in my life, even though at times we all have trouble with this.
You have given me 17 years of the best friend and daughter anyone could ever want or expect. Those 17 years have enriched my life way beyond the 17 years.
You have given me all these things and all I can give you is my continuing love, respect, pride, and appreciation.

MERRY CHRISTMAS
Peace be with you.
Love always
Dad
   ~ Dad . (4/9/2006)
It's Christmas Eve and all this month has been especially hard. My heart aches and my tears just keep coming like they can somehow empty my heart ache, and I'll feel at peace for a little while. This is the time of year when we all get together & we do count our blessings, and I know we should do that more often.
Jess, we just miss you and there's no words to express the loss we feel day after day. I hope all of us can continue to count everyday the little blessings that are all around us, but right now during these holidays we miss you & so wish to surround you with all our love for you. We'll always remember & cherish our own special times with you. The gifts you gave us all. You'll always be with us. Merry Christmas Love, Coleen
   ~ Coleen . (4/9/2006)
I just wanted to say that I love and Miss Jess very greatly..these last couple days have been very hard for me. I just want you to know I love you so much and I always will.
   ~ Tracy Enders Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
I don't know how to start this, but i will just say that life has not been the same since Jess passed away..but she will always be remembered and in my thoughts and prayers..miss ya and love u Jess cant wait to see you again Kayla
   ~ Kayla Herren Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Hi, well I've known Jess since I was about 3, she was always friends with my sister. After we moved out of interior, Pam and Jess didn't really talk much after that, we came to Kadoka and they became friends again but when they got older they kind of grew apart, even though Pam and her weren't friends any more, I guess you could say they were close enough to being friends, they just didn't hang out as much, after a while it got to where Pam just wouldn't talk to any of her old friends. After a while I talked to Jess quite a bit at school, then when jess had passed away, I realized she was more of a friend to me. I just thought that I would tell you all that I love you guys, and I miss you jess! You are all in my prayers. I love you all so much.
   ~ Cassondra Terkildsen Belvidere, SD (4/9/2006)
Life is hard, and I know I must go on. I am so very thankful for my Family and Friends. I know I have so much to be thankful for and God has richly blessed me. Tears are streaming down my face and I should quit typing these words. I wish to thank all of you who have helped me through these hard days with all the kind words, the prayers, the hugs and kisses. I Love each one of you. I know my life is blessed by all of you around me. I thank my Heavenly Father for giving me Jessica Ray, even though it was for only a short while. Thank you to Jessica's Class of 2007 and all her other friends too for being there for Jerry and I. May God Bless you Richly. With much Love in my Broken Heart, I will say Goodnight. November 7, 2006.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
I love and miss you JESSICA RAY
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
IF I KNEW.....
If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.

If I knew it would be the last time
that I'd see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug & kiss
and call you back for one more.

If I knew it would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape each action and word,
so I could play them back day after day.

If I knew it would be the last time
I could spare an extra minute
to stop and say "I Love You",
instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.

If I knew it would be the last time
I would be there to share your day,
Well, I'm sure you'll have so many more,
I can let just this one slip away.

For surely there's always tomorrow
to make up for an oversight,
and we always get a second chance
to make everything just right.

There will always be another day
to say "I Love You",
and certainly there's another chance
to say our "Anything I can do?"

But just in case I might be wrong,
and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you
and I hope we never forget.

Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
young or old alike,
and today may be the last chance
you get to hold your loved one tight.

So if you're waiting for tomorrow,
why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
you'll surely regret the day,

That you didn't take that extra time
for a smile, a hug, or a kiss
and you were too busy to grant someone,
what turned out to be their one last wish.

So hold your loved ones close today,
and whisper in their ear,
Tell them how much you love them
and that you'll always hold them dear.

Take time to say "I'm sorry",
"Please Forgive Me", "Thank You" or It's Okay".
And if tomorrow never comes,
You'll have no regrets about today.

Remembering 9/11 as September days slip away. Prayers go out to dear friends and family of all who have lost someone so dear. Jess, we'll all miss you as much tomorrow as we do today. Love You!
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
My old friend, I recall
The times we had hanging on my wall
I wouldn't trade them for gold
Cause they laugh and they cry me
Somehow sanctify me
Their woven in the stories I have told
And tell again

My old friend, I apologize
For the years that have passed
Since the last time you and I
Dusted off those memories
But the running and the races
The people and the places
There's always somewhere else I had to be
Time gets slim, my old friend

Don't know why, don't know why
Don't know why, don't know why

My old friend, this song's for you
Cause a few simple verses
Was the least that I could do
To tell the world that you were here
Cause the love and the laughter
Will live long after
All of the sadness and the tears
We'll meet again, my old friend

Goodbye, goodbye
Goodbye, goodbye

My old friend, my old friend
Goodbye, goodbye
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
A friend who doesn't go a day without thinking of 'lil one

I read this occasionally to view all the great and wonderful things I already know about Jess. It's actually on my favorites list. I carry a picture of her with me and have one in my office as well. It will never fully sink in that she had to leave for other business in heaven. I think how unfair it is she had to leave and then I stop and think that maybe she's happier where she is. The only way it makes everything okay is when I think how happy she has to be. I'm selfish when it comes to this entire ordeal. I feel like I still need her. We all do. I suppose life's lessons all teach us something... I will struggle forever as to this lesson. I am and was blessed to have been able to be a part of Jessica. That smile and glow she carried around is not something you see often. She made you feel life was a fun and happy thing. No matter if she was laying around, playing ball, or singing etc. she was always making you feel warm and safe. She really is an angel. Always was and will forever be. I realize it's been a while and nobody probably reads this anymore, but it sure makes me feel good to just finally write about one of the most special and unique individuals I've ever met. I cannot explain my feelings entirely today and may not be able to for a long while, but what won't change is that I miss Jess and hope everyone who had a place with her is doing okay today and feels the peace of her being free and happy. I try to think of her flying around watching over all of us. I miss her today, will tomorrow and forever.
Your buddy that can't wait to spend more time with you in heaven and catch up on all we've missed together.....XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
It has been so long since the last time I have seen Jess..and I still love her as much as I did the last time I saw her. Me and Jess never really hung out because she was much older then me but when ever I would see her she would smile and talk to me...with jess I was always none as Geri's little sister. I will always miss you Jess. I can't wait till I see you again...love Always Tracy Jo Enders
   ~ Tracy Enders 243040 Indian Creek Road (4/9/2006)
ALWAYS LOVED
NEVER FORGOTTEN
FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS...

Time passes so slowly some days. It's been 3 months since we lost you Jess. But as I look back 40 years to another July 9th I realize how time divides our losses and multiplies our blessings if we will just sit real still & count them.

It was a hot, hot night when 2 little girls watched their parents carry their brother away to take him to the hospital. He was very sick and times seemed so hard. Maybe we were too young then to know all the details, but we prayed.

Our prayers weren't answered the way we wanted, but faith was granted to us and we've found our answers all along the way just like God taught us to so long ago.

For my sister and for everyone missing Jess I hope God is granting you renewed faith in your life. And the strength to know we are blessed each day even when we can't feel it. Lift us up and carry us all to a better place.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
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   ~ Tyler Jones Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
From a best friends' friend

THE BEST FRIENDS MEMORIES LEAVE YOU WITH NOT A WORD TO BE SPOKEN BUT SIMPLY A SMILE AND A TEAR.
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
Hey there ya'll,
Today is Saturday, six weeks since i last saw jess to the day. it was the day we took our ACTs. People always say live each day as it is your last. I'm here to tell you i dont think there was anything that happened that day that jess would have wanted to go differently. She was truly happy and enjoyed herself. When we got done taking them we went to the bowling alley and i'll always remember Jess's wise cracks as me and Andi played pool. I was horrible at the game and jess was sure to let me know it. But she did it in her manner of making you feel foolish but yet nice enough you couldnt be mad at her. She was one of the best sweet talkers there was when it came to talkin to a teacher. I owe many a open book quizzes to jess in US history. Everyday first hour theres nothing i miss more than her smile and a joke about me being late, yet again. She will be loved and missed by all who knew her.
God bless,
Scotty James
Dec. 9 1988 - April 9, 2006, celebrate the Dec. 9, Cherish the -, and always remember the April 9.
   ~ Scotty O'Bryan . (4/9/2006)
It's the last day of school in Murdo today May 19, and it's sad to thing that Jess didn't get to be here for her last years. I think about her as i'm sitting on my horse at the rodeos waiting to compete. I was on Michael Glynn's website and found a good saying I would like to share with you. "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." This saying really touched me and just thought I would let you know that i'm still thinking about you guys.
   ~ Shelby Peters Murdo, SD (4/9/2006)
I remember when we moved to Kadoka from California when I was only 7 years old, going into first grade. I also remember you and I getting along right away, and you taking me under your wing and introducing me to everyone- Andy, Bailey, Abby and everyone else. Thinking about those early years as well as the following ones after we moved back to California, I keep remembering how even though we didn't get to see one another very often, when we did, it was so much fun. We laughed about the dumbest things and could talk about anything, just enjoyed each other's company. It has been exactly 5 weeks today since your funeral , and I still can't believe that you're gone. I miss you lots, Jes-se-ka (remember!?) and think of you everyday. The day of your funeral was by far the hardest thing I've ever gone through, and by far the most unexpected. I take comfort in remembering the sound of your laugh and how your face looked when you smiled. I wish that we had gotten to spend more time together, but I know that I will see you again. Love Always, your "cousy" Lindsay
   ~ Lindsay Davila California (4/9/2006)
Dear Family,
Today is May 5th and my heart is with you as you help with the HS practice rodeo. I know it was something Jess truly enjoyed. All the friendships she made and the fellowship of the sport meant a lot to her. It makes me proud that you were out there today giving of yourselves just as you always have and honoring Jess's memory. With the burden shared with so many dear friends I hope that somehow your hearts are a little lighter. Jess is missed so much by so many.
I think of you all daily and wish for us all to smile and be happy because that's what she would want.
Love, Coleen
   ~ Coleen Fallbrook . (4/9/2006)
A Good Friend
I knew Jess and she was such a great person she let me know that she was always their for me I loved Jess so much and will miss her I can't understand why this had to happen to her but I know God will take care of her She is in good hands
Love ya Jess
Your friend
   ~ . . (4/9/2006)
We all loved Jess so much! She will never be forgotten. she is in my heart and I love her so much. Always in my prayers!

Cally Marie
   ~ Cally Carlson Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Words cannot express how sad and how sorry we are for your great loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sometimes it is hard to remember that God knows what is best.
   ~ Patty Singletary and Families Ragley, LA 70657 (4/9/2006)
What hurts the most.. was bein so close..and havin so much to say..and watchin her go away..~"What hurts the most" by Rascal Flatts

Jerry and Merilee and family,
The class of 2007 was truly blessed for getting to share the last eleven years of our lives with Jessica Ray. Her enthusiasm for basketball and rodeo was always showing. She was a strong person both inside and out. A friend to all, loved by all. She was our "little Valedictorian." The best we can do is move on and live our lives to the fullest. That's what Jess would want us to do. Because that's what she did.

Love you forever and always,
A Classmate
   ~ A friend from the Class . (4/9/2006)
We have set here at Jessica's register and tried to come up with words to express our broken hearts. It seems as our fingers and minds go numb as we try to type some words. We all lost a very special person. Jessica touched many lives in her short time here. It still seems like a bad dream. We still look for her hug and smiln' face and that giggle when she would come to visit. And a chance to share some ice-cream! As all our hearts seem so broken and wounded by loosing our loved one. We must lean on each other and live on. That is what Jess would want us to do. May God bless and comfort you all these dark dreary days. When we can make no sense of loosing Jessica, we pray that God grants us the strength to go on and not keep asking "WHY?" but that HE gives the courage to face each day.
We wish to offer the following song and poem to all who mourn - maybe the words may bring some comfort.
"Life Ain't Always Beautiful" by Gary Allen
(poem author unknown)
For those who I love and for those who love
me......
When I am gone, release me,
let me go...
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me
with tears,
be happy that we had so many years.
I gave you my love,
you can only guess.
How much you gave me
in happiness.
I thank you for the love
you each have shown
But now its time I traveled
on alone.
So grieve awhile for me,
if grieve you must,
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It's only for awhile that
we must part.
So bless the memories that lie within our heart.
I won't be far away, for life goes on.
So if you need me, call
and I will come,
though you can't see me or touch me, I'll
be near.
And if you listen with your heart,
you'll hear, all of my love
around you soft and clear.
And then, when you must come
this way alone...
I'll greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"

THANK YOU ---JESSICA - FOR ALL THAT YOU TAUGHT US. ALL THAT YOU SHARED WITH US. MAY YOU REST IN PEACE GOD BLESS.
   ~ Chuck and Janet VanderMay 25602 SD Highway 73 --- Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Jess,
You are never far away from my thoughts. I see your picture here on the bookcase with Lauren & Lindsay. You hold a very special place in my heart. Your time with us has been such a sweet gift.

When it rains I will know you are missing us too, and when the sun shines through the leaves on the trees I will remember your smile. When the wind whispers through the pines I will know you are wishing all of us peace. I cannot feel in my heart that you are gone to heaven so I will continue to talk to you and listen for your answers in the wind, rain & sunshine.
Thank you for being with us all for the time that you could.
We appreciate it.

Merilee & Jerry, thank you for giving us Jess.
Stacy, Tucker, Lane, Levi, Elissa, Jackson, Jordan, Austin & Jessica thank you for sharing her with us, and thank you all for being so strong and such endearing examples of what the word "family" really stands for.
I love you all and we'll try to fill up that empty hole in our hearts together somehow, in time.
Luke, my heart goes out to you as you continue without Jess beside you. You have the courage and love to carry on as you know Jess would have wanted you to do. I'm sure proud you two picked each other.
God blessed our family. I wish each & every one of you the peace that passeth all understanding. Look to the heavens at night and you'll see a star twinkling brighter than the rest. That's Jess letting us know we'll never be without her. God never gives us more than we can bear. Hang tough.
Love, Coleen
   ~ Matt, Coleen, Lauren, & Lindsay Fallbrook, CA (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee and families,
Our deepest sympathies to your family. I know how proud you were of her. Just know that she always spoke just as highly of all of you. She is a very special girl and will be missed dearly. If there is anything that we can do please let us know.
Love, Kari and Griff
   ~ Griff and Kari (Williams) Martinez 10775 Central Park Ave., Evansville, WY 82636 (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time that you are going through. .If we can ever help in anyway just let us know.
   ~ Ron and Barb Barber 11500 Crooked Canyon Rd., Black Hawk, SD 57718 (4/9/2006)
I didn't know Jessica very well, just on the court and she was an awesome player. From what everyone has said and what I saw and heard at her funeral, she was an amazing person. My thoughts and prayers have been with your family.
God Bless,
Caitlin Eckert
   ~ Caitlin Eckert Okaton, SD (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee, Stacy, Levi, Austin, and family - I am so sorry and deeply saddened by your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. When I think of Jess I remember the way she loved to laugh and was always smiling. Love & prayers, Brenda
   ~ Brenda Berry Phoenix, AZ (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee, Stacy, Levi, Austin & families - We are so sorry to hear about your terrible loss. There is really nothing we can say to take away the hurt. Jessica will be remembered by all and forgotten by none. She was a special girl in many ways. We are thinking of you all. Love Wendy & Todd
   ~ Wendy & Todd Suhn Weatherford, TX (4/9/2006)
Jess was such a great friend with a huge heart and awesome personality. She had such a positive outlook on life and was just fun to hang with. Rodeo season won't be the same without her and she will be greatly missed, my thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
   ~ Cassie Sigman Sturgis, SD (4/9/2006)
I very sorry for your loss. I didn't know her but i loved to watch her play basketball against us. she was an awesome player. god be with her.
   ~ Madison Mclaughlin P.O. Box 48, Wall, SD 57790 (4/9/2006)
Words are never enough, but just know that we are thinking and praying for all of you. Love, All the Fergusons
   ~ Jeremy & Debbie (Ferguson) English and Girls Rawlins, WY (4/9/2006)
I met Jessica only once that I can remember, at the Anderson Family Reunion. Although I did not know her well, I still feel for your loss.
   ~ Jordan Wanczyk Chicago, IL (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Jessica was a special gal. I really enjoyed getting to know her though her participating in Rodeo and Basketball.
   ~ Kari Porch Pierre, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Grimes Family ,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times. Jess was a sweet girl, she will be missed a lot . May your faith give you the strength to fine peace in these difficult day ahead.
   ~ Todd & Denise Sheehan and Family n7w27350 Jacquelyn Dr., Waukesha, WI 53188 (4/9/2006)
I'm very sorry. i might have not none your daughter but my sister Dana has told me many stuff about her.
   ~ Randi Moore 428 4th Ave. (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God will take care of her.
   ~ Kelsey and Bailey Quinn, SD (4/9/2006)
All though we didn't know Jessica very well, I don't think there was ever a time that Jessica was ever alone. I got to know her at discount fuel for almost 2 years and she always was smiling, laughing and having a great deal of friends around her. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and all her friends and relatives and classmates in this time of sorrow and the many days to come
   ~ Chuck and Lynn Schulz Wall, SD (4/9/2006)
The Community mourns the loss of your special angel... Our Hearts are heavy with grief...We Didn't know Jessica very well but we can tell she was a very special young lady and was loved by all. She has touched the lives of many and you will miss her deeply... But remember God only takes the very best and He is walking beside you now in your time of sorrow. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you during this difficult time.
   ~ Vera Boje--Jamie --Kristi & TJ Livermont Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Lane, I am sorry to hear about aunt Jess, You are my very special cousin and friend,I am sad for you. Love Wyatt and Clayton
   ~ Wyatt Green and Clayton Green Winner, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Grimes Family,
We never knew Jessica personally but we loved to watch her play basketball. We are so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter and sister. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
   ~ Alan, Mary, Alana, and Allie Romero Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
I played basketball with and against Jess. She was a great athlete, and in the little time i knew her a friend. She was on all my teams one year at Calhouns Basketball Camp. We didn't know each other but it didn't take long until we were hanging out and being a good team. Jess,Carlie Uhlir, and I won the 3 point shooting contest that year. Jess will be greatly missed but never forgotten.
   ~ Leslie Bierema HC 77, Box 508, White River, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Grimes Family...
Jess was a great friend, who will be missed by everyone, but never forgotten. The many memories I have of her are in my heart forever. School will not be the same without her beautiful smile and laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
   ~ Lesa Perault Belvidere, SD (4/9/2006)
To All of the Grimes Familes,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. It is very evident that Jessica's memory is cherished by many.
   ~ Scott, Jana and Matthew Jones Midland, SD (4/9/2006)
I send out my deepest sorrows for the family and friends of Jessica. I did not know her well. I only played basketball against her. She was a very competitive athlete and an asset to many people. She will be remembered well. Love Always Brianna Lemmel, Faith High School sophomore
   ~ Brianna Lemmel Box 415, Faith, SD 57626 (4/9/2006)
I play basketball against her and i will miss playing against her. I am really sorry about your loss.
   ~ Chelsi Brown Box 237, Faith, SD 57626 (4/9/2006)
We are greatly sorry for your loss.
   ~ Faith Girls Basketball Team PO Box 619, Faith, SD 57626 (4/9/2006)
To Austin Grimes and Family. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember her as an extremely gifted young girl. She was so friendly and outgoing! Cherish the memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
   ~ Josh Eilert Manhattan, Kansas (4/9/2006)
I am very sorry to see Jessica leave us so soon. She was always smiling and talking to everyone around. She was definitely loved. She will be greatly missed.
   ~ Cassidy Smith 20770 234th St., Quinn, SD 57775 (4/9/2006)
Dear Jerry, Levi and Families, There are no words to ease the pain or the loss that you feel. We can only tell you that our thoughts and prayers have been with you these last few days. It is at times like this that we have to know that God has a bigger plan for all of us. May your faith and great memories give you strength in the days ahead.
   ~ John E. & Marilyn Johnson 13168 N. Piedmont Rd., Piedmont, SD 57769 (4/9/2006)
I was very sorry to hear about Jessica. Your family is in our prayers.
   ~ Shalista (Wendt) Anderson, Dwayne, Kenedi, Somer and Pryce Pierre, SD (4/9/2006)
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this time of your loss. He will be missed. Our deepest sympathy.
   ~ Ron and Thesa Ireland Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
We are so sorry for your loss. You all are in out thoughts and prayers.
   ~ Boyce, Kathy, Megan and Joe Kennedy Wall, SD (4/9/2006)
Merrilee, Jerry, and Family:
We are very sorry for your loss of Jess. She was one special girl. She always had a smile on her face and a hug to give. She always seemed to know when I could use one. We will miss her greatly. Please know that we are feeling your pain and would do anything to help you out. Just give a holler.
Your friends,
Laurie and Cleve
   ~ Laurie & Cleve Prichard Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
A.G my thoughts and prayers are with you and entire your family. I am truly sorry for your loss. May you find strength in God during your time of need!
   ~ Tezal McCain 7120 N. Presidio Lane, Apt. B (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee & Family,
Our thoughts & Prayers are with you all in this time of need. Jess will be missed greatly.
   ~ Teresa (Williams) Walker & Family Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Jerry, Levi and Families, There are no words to ease the pain or the loss that you feel. We can only tell you that our thoughts and prayers have been with you these last few days. It is at times like this that we have to know that God has a bigger plan for all of us. May your faith and great memories give you strength in the days ahead.
   ~ John E. & Marilyn Johnson 13168 N. Piedmont Rd., Piedmont, SD 57769 (4/9/2006)
To Tucker, Stacy & Laner - We love you all so much! We cannot even begin to express the sadness that fills our hearts for you - just know that we are here for you and that we are in constant prayer that God will bring you peace.
To the whole family: Jess was such a beautiful "little girl." We remember her as Stacy's little sister - the cute little tomboy, then as the beautiful young lady that she turned into overnight. In this deep sadness, may God wrap His loving arms around each of you and may you find peace in the memories that will forever be in your hearts. You are in our every thought and prayer.
   ~ Bret, Jeannie, Kaylee and Kolter Clark Box Elder, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Merilee,Jerry & family, Our hearts ache for you during this sad time and the loss of Jess. She will be forever remembered by so many and our family included. We have many pictures of Jess & Michael when they were little and maybe even of their big brothers, Levi & Steve playing ball with them at our house. Our Thoughts & Prayers are with you all and know your faith in God and your wonderful memories of Jess will help get you through this very difficult time. All our Love, Bob, Vanessa & Michael
   ~ Bob & Vanessa Gardner 104 N Fir St., Pierre, SD 57501 (4/9/2006)
My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time of need.
   ~ Sabrina Davidson 274 S 47th Apt. D, Springfield, OR 97478 (4/9/2006)
Dear Jerry,Merrilee,Stacy,Levi,Austin,and family, Our hearts are filled with sorrow at this time of difficult loss. Remember all the great memories and cherish all the times spent with your dear angel, and keep the faith as Jessica watches out for all of you from Heaven and protects each one of you in this time of sorrow. Our prays are with all of you, Reiny and Kristi Stevahn family
   ~ Reiny and Kristi Stevahn Springfield, Oregon 97478 (4/9/2006)
We are so sorry for your loss. Jess has been a special friend to all of us and always a ray of sunshine. She always went above and beyond and our memories will be a blessing. We will keep you in our prayers
   ~ Scot, Jodie, Taylor, Faye, Wacey, Scotty, and Grady O'Bryan Belvidere, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Jerry, Merilee & Family,
Our hearts go out to all of you. We continue to pray that God will surround you with His Presence.
   ~ Robert and Betty Berry, Kim, Ryon, Ashley Midland, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Grimes Family: We would like to send our deepest sympathy for your loss. Jessica will always be in everyone's heart. Words will never take away the pain you are feeling but always remember the good times and live on by the memories. She will be greatly missed during rodeo season and they will never be the same without her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. The Tiltrum Family
   ~ Jim, Pam, Les, and Lane Tiltrum 24211 Daughenbaugh Rd., Hermosa, SD 57744 (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merrilee, and family, I didn't know Jessica all that well, but it sounds to me that she knew who she was, she knew where she came from, and she knew where she was going in life. That is a truly special person. Please accept my thoughts and prayers to you and your family, especially Grandma Shirley.
   ~ Heather Olney 4901 East Kelton Lane, Scottsdale, AZ 85254 (4/9/2006)
I can't begin to have words to describe how much i will miss Jess. She was always one of my best friends growing up and i will miss her so much. I didn't get to see her much since i moved and I wish in the worst way i could have seen her more. She will always be a part of me.
   ~ Michael Gardner Pierre, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Jerry, Merrilee, Levi, Austin and Stacy and families, Our hearts go out to you in the loss of your beautiful Jessica. She was a special person and I know she has a special place in heaven with God where she is smiling and happy. I wish there was some way to ease your sorrow. Only time will let your wonderful memories of her help to ease the pain. God bless each of you. We are so sorry for your loss.
   ~ Morris and Barbarba Jones Midland, SD (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merrilee, and family,
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to each of you!! God Bless you all!! Bill and Judy White and family
   ~ Bill and Judy White and Family Oelrichs, SD (4/9/2006)
I am sorry to hear about your loss. I have never met Jessica. I am sure she was a joy to be around. She will be greatly missed. Cherish the memories.
   ~ Digger Beckwith 211 Upper Valley Spearfish, SD 57783 (4/9/2006)
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.. Jessica was such a wonderful person, teaching me never to be afraid, and what true friendship really was-she will never be gone for I know she will always be in my heart and that I will some day once again play basketball with her.
   ~ Bailey Bergeson Box 311, Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Let loving thoughts and memories console you and find comfort in all the friends who surround you. Our thoughts are with you all. Remember Jessica has gone no further from you than to God, and God is very near.
With love and sympathy,
Kathleen and Murphy
   ~ Kathleen and Murphy Barrett 2441 Dexter Road, Auburn Hills, Michigan 48326 (4/9/2006)
Jess was one of my favorite people to be around, whether it was at rodeos or basketball games. She was a bright, smart and was always telling you her opinion. Jess was loved by many and she became like a sister to me. We'll all miss her and she'll always be in our hearts and prayers. We'll pray for the family to cope with their loss....Love Kenda Cuny
   ~ Kenda Cuny 21395 SD Hwy. 248, Philip, SD 57567 (4/9/2006)
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I remember when Jessica was born, all of Stacy's friends couldn't wait to go see her new baby sister. Stacy, I am so sorry about the loss of your sister. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.
Tiffany Williams
   ~ Tiffany Williams 3501 Lancaster Dr., Ft. Collins, CO 80525 (4/9/2006)
Jessica touched all of our hearts too. She was a dear girl and I remember her so well in second grade. Then so quickly she was in high school. The sadness we feel is hard to express. Please know you are in our prayers. We can only imagine how painful losing her is.
   ~ Bruce, Sally, Stephanie, Megan Sherburne and Stacey Meyer Sioux Falls, SD (4/9/2006)
God has special reasons for taking people so young, but you always have to remember she will still be with you every day. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
   ~ Sara (Neese) Sherwood and Family White River, SD (4/9/2006)
There is nothing one can say or do at this time, but know all our love, thoughts and prayers are with y'all.
   ~ Corey, Micki (Josserand) & Regan Jade Weeden 138 Borglum Court, Ellsworth AFB, SD 57706 (4/9/2006)
Jerry and Merrilee, Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss of Jess. She always brought sunshine with her where ever she went. May your memories and those of all who knew Jess be a blessing to help you through this difficult time.
Love, Kathy Tanner and Cory
   ~ Kathy, Tanner, and Cory Jobgen Rapid City, SD (4/9/2006)
That I love you
I have loved you all along
And I miss you
Been far away for far too long
I keep dreaming you'll be with me
and you'll never go
Stop breathing if
I don't see you anymore
   ~ Pam Amiotte Belvidere, SD (4/9/2006)
Merrilee & family, My heart goes out to your family during your loss. Please keep comfort in knowing that God is taking care of her now. I will think of your family in prayer.
   ~ DeAnn Bearheels Rapid City, SD (4/9/2006)
May the Good Lord comfort you. We are deeply sorry for your loss.
   ~ Jim, Mary Lou and Diana 7105 W 23rd St., Greeley, CO 80634 (4/9/2006)
We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our prayers. Love you, Larry and Cara
   ~ Larry and Cara Hubbard 161 N. 60th Ave. Greeley, CO 80634 (4/9/2006)
I hope your memories bring you comfort. Please know we are thinking of your family in your time of sorrow. God bless. Our prayers are with you. Melonie and family
   ~ Melonie (Rodgers) Dan, Savannah and Kaitlyn Steffen Pierre, SD (4/9/2006)
Stacy, Tucker, and family, We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. I have been reading all of the beautiful things everyone else is writing about her and it sounds like you were so lucky to have had her in your lives. May God bless you during this difficult time and know we are thinking of you all.
   ~ Kelly Dougherty, Jennifer & Family Colome, SD (4/9/2006)
Austin, Jessica and family - We are saddened to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
   ~ Sid & Teresa Karsney 5205 Oakwood Rd., Ortonville, MI 48462 (4/9/2006)
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that your family is in our prayers. God Bless~
   ~ Tami Hight & Trent & Karli Gress Buffalo, SD (4/9/2006)
We are so very sorry for your loss and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
   ~ Stephanie Angeli and Jordan Wanczyk Elmhurst, Illinois (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee, & Family,
I did not personally know Jessica, but you have been in my prayers from the moment we heard about the accident. Having sons & daughters who are teenagers now (& just past that)I know the joys & the worries that come with every day. We have daughters just graduated from Philip & another one just coming into high school so I know I have watched her on some sport floors over the years! I can't say that I know your pain at this loss, but as a Mom of teenagers I know the prayer that we have every single time they are away from home - that they return safely. We can't know God's plans or reasonings & at times like this it is SO hard to understand why this happened - but He does have His reasons. Just know that even even though some of us do not even know you, we are still grieving for you & with you & keeping you in our prayers. I can tell from the people who did know her that she was a very special girl & you all have tons of great memories of her to carry with you forever.
Keep them close & fresh. God bless you all & may He carry you through this time of sorrow.
Kieth & Deb Smith, Tucker, Chancie, Cassidy, Lincoln, & Colby
   ~ Kieth & Deb Smith Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Jerry,Merilee and families, I was so sorry and sad to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter. While I never had the pleasure to have met and know her, then I have a great sadness for that also. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
   ~ Shirley (Carlson) Bethancourt 725 South E Street, Spokane, WA 99224 (4/9/2006)
Dear Jerry, Merrilee and families, Our hearts are so full of sorrow for your loss. Words fail to express how we feel, and the support we want to pass on to you. May your faith and your memories be your guide through this most difficult time. God is there beside you and so are all of your friends. Love from, Owen and Bonnie Ferguson and family
   ~ Owen and Bonnie Ferguson Box 13, Longvalley, SD (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jess was a very special girl and life just wont be the same with out her. We love you all! The Waln Family
   ~ Jeff, Janelle, Joey Jacob and Coop Waln PO Box 851, Martin, SD 57551 (4/9/2006)
In ways big and small, Jessica's life changed our world and left it a better place, and touched too many hearts to ever be forgotten.
May you find comfort in knowing how many people share your sadness.
   ~ Kendra Weller Mitchell, SD (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee & family--Bruce and I understand and know the depth of you loss. In the days ahead may you find peace in the wonderful memories of Jessica. Our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. God will help you find the the courage and strength you will need.
   ~ Bruce and Virginia Conlee 10301 Romel Dr., Black Hawk, SD (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee & family - We are all shocked and saddened to hear about your loss. I will always remember Jessica growing up and reminding me of a little angel with her blonde locks of hair and sunshine smile. When it came to athletics, she was the spark plug the team always needed. And it seemed as tho she always gave her best until the bitter end. Just know I am praying for you in the days ahead asking God to give you the courage to go on. My heart goes out to each and every one of you during this difficult time!
   ~ Judy Olney PO Box 187, Wall, SD 57790 (4/9/2006)
Stacy, Tucker and famiy~~ You are in our thoughts and prayers during this very sad and difficult time. Cherish the memories you have of Jessica. May God bless your whole family and give you strength. Hugs to all of you. With Love, Stacie and Joe
   ~ Joe and Stacie Bolton Colome, SD (4/9/2006)
Jessica was such a sweet and vibrant girl. We only knew her briefly, but feel honored to have been touched by her. Your entire family is in our thoughts in prayers.
Dan and Angel
   ~ Dan and Angel Lindsey Chadron, NE (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God just added another ANGEL to his group. In times like this we must remember that God has a plan for everyone. Trust in him and he will take care of you.
   ~ Janelle (Madsen) Popwell Wellington, TX (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jessica was a very special girl, who always had a smile on her face. She will be forever missed.
   ~ Shawn and Tashia Porch and Boys Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jess will forever be in our hearts. Love, Laney, Joe and Bodey Cooper
   ~ Laney Perault & Joe and Boedy Waln Spearfish, SD (4/9/2006)
I was very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with all of you.
   ~ Tammy Prokop 7899 Garland Lane N., Maple Grove, MN 55311 (4/9/2006)
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Jess was a cool girl and will always be loved and remembered.
   ~ Mercedez Rodriguez P.O. Box 421 (4/9/2006)
We all grieve for your loss and pray for your strength. I am very sorry.
   ~ Kevin and Nicole Wilson Hobart, IN (4/9/2006)
Mr. & Mrs. Grimes, Stacy, Levi & Austin....my entire families thoughts and prayers are with you all, may you find strength in God and family during this time of sadness.
   ~ Adam Lewis 1625 East Sunset Dr. #201, Waukesha, WI 53189 (4/9/2006)
We hope you know how very much you are all cared about and how deeply your loss is felt by everyone, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
   ~ Shannon, Pat, Sonnie and Brett Gartner 21180 Craven Rd., Interior, SD 57750 (4/9/2006)
We are heartbroken for your family's loss. Our prayers are that God blesses you at this most difficult time for all of you. Jess was such a memorable, mature, decent young woman and we will miss her very much. God bless each one of you.
   ~ Dave, Valerie, Reed and Reece Ohrtman Long Valley, SD (4/9/2006)
Austin and family. I know how hard it can be to lose someone so close to you. Please know that my thoughts are with you.
   ~ Sarah Bluma Milwaukee, WI (4/9/2006)
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Jessica will be remembered for her participation at Rodeo Bible camp with her easy smile and willing ways. May God hold you close during the days ahead.
   ~ Bill, Laura and Brad Johnson HC 66 Box 34, Reva, SD 57651 (4/9/2006)
Stacey, Tucker and Family: We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. While we never had the pleasure of meeting Jessica, we feel your pain and pray that soon memories of your time together will help you find comfort. Keep her in close your hearts. God Bless you and your family.
   ~ Dan and Karrie Corrin Rapid City, SD (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and if there is anything I can do please let me know
   ~ DMico Johnson 7120 B Presidio Dr., Milwaukee, WI (4/9/2006)
Dear Friends,
We cannot even imagine what you are going through. We've thought of you constantly these last few days and want to share a poem with you. Author Unknown.

"I'll let you have, for a little time, a child of mine."
He said, "For you to love the while she lives and mourn for when she is dead."
It may be six or seven years or 21 or '3.
But will you till I call her back, take care of her for me?
I'll bring her charms to gladden you and should her stay be brief.
"You'll have her lovely memories as solace for your grief."
"I cannot promise she will stay, since all from earth return.
But there are lessons taught from there I want this child to learn.
I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true.
And from the throngs that crowd life's lane, I have selected you.
Now will you give her all your love, not think the labor vain.
Nor hate Me when I come to take her back again?.
"I fancied that I heard you say 'Dear Lord, thy will be done'.
For all the joy your child shall bring the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter her with tenderness, we'll love her while we may.
And for the happiness we've known, we'll forever grateful stay.
But should Your angels come for her much sooner than we've planned.
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand."
God bless you all and may His grace comfort you at this time.
   ~ Gary and Julie Nixon 22401 Deadman Creek Rd., Philip, SD 57567 (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. God Bless you all.
   ~ The Staff of Seven Down Arenas Spearfish, SD (4/9/2006)
We all loved Jess very mush,,, she will be with us forever. God bless her family.
   ~ Cassondra Terkildsen Belvidere, SD 57521 (4/9/2006)
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
   ~ Stephanie Carlson Rapid City, SD (4/9/2006)
We are sorry to hear of your loss. Your family is in our hearts and prayers.
   ~ Monty & Bobbi Jo (Amdahl) Williams Box Elder, SD (4/9/2006)
My thoughts and prayers to all of you. Jessica was one of the best people I have known and is a great loss to us all.
   ~ Wacey O'Bryan Belvidere, SD (4/9/2006)
Your family is in our prayers.
   ~ Rock, Danita, Bailee and Pat Thompson Buffalo, SD (4/9/2006)
I am so sorry for your loss. Jess was a beautiful young woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
   ~ Bobbi Jo Eckert Rapid City, SD (4/9/2006)
Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. I remember when Jess would come into the kitchen where my mom works every morning before school started to play basketball. She would ask me, "How do you do that?" By the time high school came around, I was the one looking up to Jess asking her, "how did you do that?!" I really enjoyed my last 3 years of high school with Jess. I will always keep those memories close to my heart. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless!
Mark, Hillary, and Leilani
   ~ Hillary (Stroppel) Erice and Family 311 Janelle Dr., Copperas Cove, TX 76522 (4/9/2006)
Our prayers are with you...God Bless..
   ~ Steve and Paula Livermont and Tee 28765 237th Ave., Martin, SD 57551 (4/9/2006)
We will always remember the little Tom-Boy who grew into a beautiful young lady. I miss Jess coming into the lunch room for her Scooby-Doo snacks! I last spoke to Jess on Friday and said " So Jess, are you ready for school to be out and ready for summer?" She said "Oh yeah, But I will miss sports and my friends" and gave us that smile! Our hearts are so heavy, We want you and your family to know how sorry we are, and may you find comfort from above. We will miss her in more ways then I can say. Our Love and Prayers are with you, Sheryl
   ~ Bill, Sheryl Jessi Hillary & Hayli . (4/9/2006)
Jess has been my best friend for 13 years. We shared so many great times together. Words can't explain how I'm feeling right now. I just love and miss her so much.
   ~ Andrea Johnston Belvidere, SD (4/9/2006)
We had the pleasure of watching Jessica at Calhoon's basketball camp in White River last summer. She really knew the basketball floor!
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
   ~ Brandy & Myles Fairbanks Wood, SD (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee and family. Words can not express the sorrow that Tanna and I feel for your loss. I have great memories of staying at your place when I was a kid. Jess was a very special young lady and an awesome athlete. I can not remember a time when I did not see her smiling. Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you. Love, Steve & Tanna
   ~ Steve & Tanna Gardner 332 S. VanBuren St. Apt. 3, Pierre, SD 57501 (4/9/2006)
Merilee & Family, I didn't know Jess, but having you as her mom Merilee, says that she too was a truly special person. I'm so sorry for your loss, our prayers are with you now.
   ~ Floren & Debbie (Allard) Falzone Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
Jessica was a treasured friend, competitor, and rival. She will never be forgotten in and on the court and the arena. You're in our prayers.
   ~ Todd, Samra, MacKenzie, Jaymie, Torrie, and Tyler Trask Box 34, Wasta, SD 57791 (4/9/2006)
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   ~ Johnathon Hanes Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
People come into each others lives all the time and so many times the effects of meeting are short lived. Jess was not one of those people whose touch seems to fade with time. She had impacted each and everyone of our lives and she will be there forever. She had the unique ability to bring out the best in people. She made one a better person just for being a part of her life and she invited everyone to be a part. She will be greatly missed and she will live on through the incredible gift that she shared - that of herself. May God hold you in his loving arms as you begin to deal with the deep loss. With all of our heartful sympath Zane, Skye and Kippy
   ~ Zane, Skye Lindquist & Kippy Udehn Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
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   ~ Glen Hopkins, Rhiannon Patterson & Family 2816 Minnetonka Dr., Rapid City, SD (4/9/2006)
My fondest memories of Jess are watching her smile with her friends on the basketball court and how that smile lit up a room. I cannot begin to say how sorry we are for your loss.
   ~ Carey and Amber Gardner Rapid City, SD (4/9/2006)
Jerry, Merilee and family, It is hard to find the words to comfort in a time of such great loss. I just wanted to let you know that Jess was a fantastic girl. Her smile and friendly manners always made my mornings and days, her gummi worms and frosted animal crackers were a must. God chooses those he takes for a special reason and I am sure he has something "Great" in mind for her. My love and prayers are with you all. Love ,Dixie
   ~ Dixie Huber Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Jerry, Merilee, and family,
We want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers at this so impossibly difficult time. Please find comfort in your memories of the sweet smile of your beautiful daughter. Seventeen years is such a short time, but we know her life was a blessing to you and all who knew her. May God bless you and comfort you. Love and prayers, Reed and Joyce
   ~ Reed and Joyce Richardson Box 55, Long Valley, SD 57547 (4/9/2006)
Avery, Liz, Bud and Mary Jo
20261 BIA 2 Kyle, SD 57752

Jerry, Merilee and family, I see Jess's face so clear, I see her fierce competiveness in the arena, I see her passion for basketball, I see her kindness with her friends and her opponents
I see her love for her family, but mostly I see a girl that gave a lot to all of us with just a simple smile. I think God must of been seeing the same thing.
   ~ Avery, Liz, Bud and Mary Jo 20261 BIA 2, Kyle, SD 57552 (4/9/2006)
I was fortunate enough to have Austin and Jessica both when I worked at the School in Kadoka. Jessica was always so pleasant and such a hard worker, a very bright student. She was a very talented athlete and we enjoyed watching her play basketball whenever we had the chance. My Dad (Dick Vosberg) thought she was very, very special. In reading everyone else's entries, it seems that her smile was the most spoken of quality that everyone will remember. At a time like this, there is sorrow that no heart could ever be prepared for. Cherish the memories.
   ~ Randy, Holly and Chelsee Nemec Midland, SD (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers our with you!
   ~ Tom, Lori, Whitney, & Sadie O'Rourke PO Box 145, Interior, SD 57750 (4/9/2006)
I am so very sorry for your loss. She was such a beautiful person inside and out. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
   ~ Shannon Porch Wanblee, SD (4/9/2006)
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
   ~ Paul and Sara Speer Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. She was a very special and will be missed by all that knew her.
   ~ Stanley and Shirley Porch Wanblee, SD (4/9/2006)
Words cannot express the sorrow of your loss. May our thoughts and prayers be with you all. So many memories of Jessica will hold a special place in our lives. May God give you the strength to heal.
   ~ Marvin, Kathy, Shawna & Amy Jobgen Scenic, SD (4/9/2006)
Jessica was a very special young lady with a beautiful smile and a wonderful personality. My thought and prayers are with all of you.
   ~ Bekki Reinert Wall, SD (4/9/2006)
Mark and I enjoyed watching Jessica grow into an exceptional young woman. She was loved by everyone that knew her, and she will be greatly missed. We are so sorry for your loss! Please let us know if we can do anything.
   ~ Mark, Jayme & Tyus Williams Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Grimes family.
   ~ Brandie (Siler), Cody & Hunter Tillery Rapid City, SD (4/9/2006)
I love you and miss you Jess
   ~ Tracy Enders 243040 Indian Creek Road (4/9/2006)
Our hearts go out to your whole family during this time of sorrow. Jessica was a special young lady. Your family is in our hearts and prayers during this difficult time.
Love,
Tayta & Branden West
   ~ Tayta and Branden West Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
We miss her so much! We are thinking of you guys and will do anything for you. I can't find the words... Love from us all!
   ~ Matt, Cheryl, Melissa and Colby Porch Jess' #1 Fans (4/9/2006)
Jess was an awesome person and she will forever be loved and missed. I'm praying for all of you
   ~ Corrine Thompson Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Grimes,
I am so so terribly sorry to here the bad news. You have never met me but your daughter was a good friend of mine. I am a new senior at Kadoka High School and for my first year here I have to say this is a pretty awesome community. When I first came to school here many people judged me and didn't like before they even got the chance to know me, but not Jess though. I was sitting on the table outside and she comes over and starts talking to me and I remember like it was yesterday. I told her what was wrong she smiled that "JESS" smile and said,"Don't worry about it, You have me by your side." I have never met a girl that cared so much about everyone else besides herself. You raised one heck of a daughter. Just because Jess is gone now just remember she will always have a big piece of your heart.
   ~ Tara Williams Kadoka/Wall, SD (4/9/2006)
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May the angels hold you in their arms and comfort you in your time of sorrow. Remember all the good times. Jessica had a smile like a ray of sunshine. She will truly be missed. God Bless
   ~ Chuck, Donna, Amanda, Wyatt, and Dustin Enders Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Jessica was one of my Spanish students last year. I am so sorry to hear about this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
   ~ Doug Barnes Sioux Falls, SD (4/9/2006)
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of sorrow. May God watch over all of you and help you through this difficult time. God Bless!
   ~ Mandie (Nixon) Menzel Dupree, SD (4/9/2006)
You are all deep in our hearts and prayers. Jess was a beautiful girl. Always a friendly smile and a hi no matter who you were. God chooses the very best we know that for sure now. She will continue to live on in all of our lives. God Bless You.
   ~ Bob, Colleen, Justin and Kristen Bouman White River, SD (4/9/2006)
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
   ~ Kimberly Letellier and Michael Djodjic Draper, SD (4/9/2006)
Just wanted to let you know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. I have many memories of Jessica and your whole family at Rodeo Bible Camp. May your memories carry you through this difficult time. If the Lord brings you to it, He will bring you through it!
Love & Prayers,
Jake & April Schofield & Family
   ~ Jake and April (Clements) Schofield Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
We are keeping you in our prayers. I can't imagine the pain that comes with losing a child. I want to assure you that Mr. Shuck and my lives were touched by your daughter. I am going to miss her giving me a hard time with a smile on her face. She was always asking, "Mrs. Shuck, are you tired of my attitude yet!" Then she would laugh. She always made me smile every day. I am going to miss her. If there is anything we can do, please don't hesitate to ask. She will be forever present in my mind.
   ~ The Shuck Family PO Box 453 (4/9/2006)
My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone who feels the same sorrow during this time of loss. Jessica was always friendly and one of the best friends you can have going through high school. I'm sorry for your loss and pray that God will comfort all of you. I feel blessed to have spent the last four years of school with her and I am going to miss her friendly smile everyday.
   ~ Zane Riggins 21783 SD HWY 44, Wanblee, SD 57577 (4/9/2006)
Mere words cannot convey our deep sorrow for your loss. She was a beautiful child inside and out. Please know that we pray for your family in dealing with this tragedy. May God be with you all.
   ~ Jem, Kelly, Dillon, Ryan, Brittany, Krysta and Paige Kjerstad 20055 Wolf Rd., Quinn, SD 57775 (4/9/2006)
All our love to you. Elsie had a huge hug for your Jess. Jackie
   ~ Jim and Jackie Herber Family Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
God be with you all during this time of sorrow. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless.
   ~ Woody David Kadoka PD (4/9/2006)
Our prayers are with you and yours.
   ~ Greg, Lori, Carisa, Lainee, and Jace Shearer 18870 222nd St., Wall, SD 57790 (4/9/2006)
The community is in tears for all of you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers
   ~ Justin and Joyce Wheeler 24208 Fairview Road, Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
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   ~ Jane Brunson Hermosa, SD 57744 (4/9/2006)
We are deeply sorry for your tragic loss of your daughter. She was a great basketball player and all around cowgirl. Shelby was really looking forward to team roping with her this year. We are truly, truly sorry for your loss.
   ~ Lon, Chris, Kasey and Shelby Peters HCR 74, Box 53, Murdo, SD 57559 (4/9/2006)
Dear Grimes family, Our hearts ache for you in the loss of your precious daughter. We will pray that God will wrap his arms around you and hold you close and bring you and your family comfort. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
   ~ Marty and Jeannine Sawall & Family 2234 West Shore Dr., Delafield, WI 53018 (4/9/2006)
Jessica was a special, talented girl with a beautiful smile. Our hearts and prayers are with all of you.
   ~ Ben and Angel Bauman Fort Morgan, Colorado (4/9/2006)
We are thinking of you in this ever so difficult time. Jess was the kindest, dearest, sweetest girl we knew. She had a smile that lasted a mile and carried a ray of sunshine with her wherever she went and had the ability to brighten any room she entered. Although the days are long and hard now, we hope that someday the memories of her that we cherish so dear will carry us through each day.
We love you and thanks for sharing her with us. We loved her like a sister!
God Bless You
David, Michelle, Kelcey & Katie
   ~ David, Michelle, Kelcey & Katie Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
I was extremely saddened to hear of Jessica's accident. Life is so unfair at times. I wish we were able to understand God's reasoning for everything. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
   ~ Jody Petras 8 Bengal Dr., Rapid City, SD 57701 (4/9/2006)
Dear Grimes Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We never met Jessica but know her through her brother Austin and his wife Jessica,we sort of adopted the two of them here in Michigan, thanks for sharing them. Our youngest daughter is the same age as your Jessica and was just talking about visiting Austin and Jess in Nebraska sometime over the summer and hoping she would have the chance to meet your Jessica. Please know our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. We our so sorry this has happened. Love The Back's
   ~ The Back Family, Greg, Patti, Joshua, Jodie, Jacqueline, & Jolene 735 Wolfe Rd., Ortonville, MI 48462 (4/9/2006)
Our sympathy to Jerry, Merilee and extended family.
   ~ Stu and Vicki Wilson Kadoka, SD (4/9/2006)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you!!
   ~ Mike & Anita Heathershaw & Boys 23301 Quinn Rd., Quinn, SD 57775 (4/9/2006)
Our deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you as you go through these difficult days. We pray that God will uphold you and surround you with His love and watchcare. With our love, Ray & Sue Kingsbury
   ~ Ray and Sue Kingsbury 7401 Blackmon Road, Apartment #702, Columbus, GA 31909 (4/9/2006)
I am so sorry to hear about Jessica. It is so hard to lose your child. My thoughts and prayers will be with you during this very difficult time. Coleen
   ~ Coleen (Berry) Kayras Sturgis, SD (4/9/2006)
Dear Friends: was so sorry to hear about Jessica. I'm sure she is in God's hands. Sometimes we don't know why, but can only thank the Lord for the time you had with her. God Bless you all in this time of hurt. Best Wishes, see you this summer, Rae Crowser


   ~ Rae Crowser Casa Grande, AZ/ Philip, SD (4/9/2006)
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   ~ The James Kingsbury Family Box 592, Kimball, NE 69145 (4/9/2006)
Merilee and Jerry and family, I bet you will be reading this again soon as the anniversary of a life change event approaches. Know that I think of you and your family often still after all these years. God bless us all on this journey called life...and lead us to heaven when it's our turns to go (so we can see our loved ones again, those who took earlier flights). Amen.
   ~ Coleen (Herber) Letellier Hulett (4/4/2022)

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