Obituary: Arlys Neville

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In memory of

Arlys Neville

of Philip, South Dakota, died on Tuesday, September 22, 2009 at the Rapid City Regional Hospital in Rapid City at the age of 76

Arlys Lee Hansen was born May 22, 1933, the daughter of Wallace “Bud” and Helga (Ellefson) Hansen. She was raised by Bud and Marie Hansen on the Hansen ranch.
Arlys was united in marriage to Robert S. Neville on October 15, 1950, at Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Philip, and to this union five children were born. Arlys and Bob worked for various ranchers around the Philip area. In 1963 they purchased the Ed and Opal Bodkin place west of Billsburg, where they resided until moving into Philip in 2008.
Arlys was a member of the First Lutheran Church of Milesville.
Grateful for having shared her life include her husband of nearly 59 years, Bob Neville; three sons Kenny Neville and his wife Nancy of Philip, Bobby Gene Neville and his wife Tootie of Rapid City, and Randy Neville and his wife Bessie of El Paso, Texas; one daughter Marlys “Molly” Kukal and her husband Marty of Garrison, Montana; thirteen grandchildren; twelve great-grandchildren; her mother Marie Hansen of Philip; three brothers Jack Hansen and his wife Donna of Philip, Darryl Hansen and his wife Kay of Stockton, California, and Bob Hansen and his wife LaVonne of Howes; three sisters Paula Poss and her husband Bill of Riverside, California, Charlene Reed and her husband Sonny of Pierre, and Shirley Raue of Pierre; one sister-in-law Sandy Hansen of Winner; several nieces and nephews; and a host of other relatives and friends. Arlys was preceded in death by a daughter Marilyn Neville on July 24, 1992; her parents; and two brothers Richard “Zip” Hansen and Gene Hansen.
Visitation was held 4-7 p.m. on Friday, September 25, at the Rush Funeral Home in Philip, and one hour preceding the services at the church on Saturday.
Funeral services were held 10:00 a.m. Saturday, September 26, at Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Philip, with Pastor Ray Greenseth officiating.
Graveside services were held at 1:00 p.m. Saturday, at the Milesville Cemetery.
A memorial is established.

FUNERAL SERVICES
Saturday, September 26, 2009 - 10:00 a.m.
Our Redeemer Lutheran Church
Philip, South Dakota
CLERGY
Pastor Ray Greenseth
MUSIC
Rick and Marlis Doud
“Old Rugged Cross”
“Amazing Grace”
“Just A Closer Walk With Thee”
USHERS
Mark Hanrahan - Glenn Parsons
ACTIVE PALLBEARERS
Clint Neville - Chad Hanrahan
Kaden Neville - Marty Hansen
Jesse Hansen - D.J. Neville
INTERMENT
Saturday, September 26, 2009 - 1:00 p.m.
Milesville Cemetery
Milesville, South Dakota
A Tribute To My Daughter "Arlys"
Arlys was my first daughter and child in my family. She grew up with 5 brothers and 3 sisters. Arlys was such a good little helper with the chores around the house. She watched over her younger brothers and sisters and was very protective of them. Arlys loved to sew and made many of her own children's clothes. One of my fondest memories over the years is when I sent Arlys and Shirley to a neighbor to get tin snips. Arlys sat Shirley down in the middle of the road and cut off one of her braids.
There were so many family gatherings that will never be forgotten. I am sad that I never got to say "good-bye". Arlys is in good hands. She is with her daughter Marilyn, her father Bud, and brothers Gene and Zip. They are probably telling stories about the family and playing cards. I will never forget the love that I feel for "Arlys" and my entire family.
Play a game of pitch for me and don't let the boys or dad win.
Love,
Your Mother

Visitation: 4-7 p.m. on Friday, September 25, at the Rush Funeral Home in Philip.
Funeral services: 10:00 a.m. Saturday, September 26, at Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Philip
Graveside services: 1:00 p.m. Saturday, at the Milesville Cemetery.

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My sincere sympathy on your loss! May the many memories carry you thru! God Bless! ~ Shelia Trask Wasta SD (9/22/2009)
Dear Bob and Family:
There is no way to count the many days, evenings, hours I spent at "Grandma" Arlys' house. I can remember the house vividly as they were our closest neighbors; the HUGE flowers along the sidewalk and house every summer, the cute little bum lambs, the coffee can with cookies (usually oatmeal/raisin). My favorite was the old kid's desk that had coloring books and crayons!!! There was always a familiar, homey smell walking into their house...and her laugh was one in a million. She provided a good home to all of us!! As I think about all the memories now -they are too numerous to count. I hope you can take heart in those wonderful memories and I wish I could be there to share our stories. May God Bless each of you. ~ Kara Gittings Moriarty Anchorage, AK (9/22/2009)
Neville family, I am saddened to hear that Arlys passed away. I have many fond memories of Arlys and the whole family. Hold her memories close to your heart. God Bless You, Stacy ~ Stacy Dole Black Hawk (9/22/2009)
Kenny and Nancy and Family: I am so sorry about Arlys. Keep the memories close to your heart and she will be there always.
God Bless! Terri ~ Terri Pelle Philip (9/22/2009)
GOD BLESS ARLYS. FAMILY, PLEASE KNOW THAT I'VE LOVED HER MY WHOLE LIFE. GOD BLESS YOU ALL. ~ PAULA POSS 16191 LAKE MATHEWS DR. PERRIS, CA 92570 (9/22/2009)
Kenny, Nancy, Marie & family,
I was sorry to hear of your loss. Know my prayers are with you during this time. May God strengthen and bless you all. ~ Mark Ford Sartell, MN (9/22/2009)
So sorry to hear of the passing of Arlys. I have so many good memories of her kindness and sense of humor. She was a great women and will be missed by all.

My prayers are with all the family

Theresa ~ Theresa Pekron Westminster, CO (9/22/2009)
Bob and Family. I remember Arlys and the family as far back as I can remember. Great lady. My sincere thoughts are with you all. Joe ~ Joe Millage Philip SD (9/22/2009)
Uncle Bob and Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I am so grateful to have the opportunity to see Arlys this week and be able to visit with her and the entire family after so many years. My sincere sympathy to the entire family. God Bless You, Vonnie Long
~ Vonnie Long 139 Ballenger Ranch Road, Edgewood, NM (9/22/2009)
Bob & Family,
Sorry to hear Arlys passed away. May God Bless you & comfort you now & the days ahead. Will keep you in our prayers. Hold onto the wonderful memories you have of her.
God Bless
Steve & Pam ~ Steve & Pam Clements Philip (9/22/2009)
We are truly sorry for your loss. May your memories of this lovely lady make this time easier for you all. We have many great memories of coming with our parents and staying with the family. Arlys always took time out her busy day to chat with us kids individually. I will never forget that. She truly was a Great Lady. ~ Audrey & Lynn Merchen Newcastle, WY (9/22/2009)
Dear Neville Family: Our hearts go out to you at this sad time. I have been thinking of you these past days and remembering all the good times we had together in our days at Hart School. I can vividly see you all. So sorry to hear about your Mom. May your memories, and the Good Lord help you through these difficult times. Your Mom will be missed by many people. ~ Nancy (Pekron) & Rick Ehrhardt Brandon SD (9/22/2009)
My greatest condolences to all of Arlys ,family.God Bless ~ Ray Wilhelm 330 Florman St. Rapid City,S.D. (9/22/2009)
To the Neville Family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. ~ Sherry Hanson Spearfish (9/22/2009)
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at the lose of a very dear lady. May God help you thru the days ahead. God Bless ~ Tucker and Bev Hudson Howes, SD (9/22/2009)
To the Neville Family - our sincere sympathy to you all. God Bless! ~ Don and Jolene Haynes Philip (9/22/2009)
My sympathy to the Hansen family. I spent many happy hours at their home during my childhood. ~ Jo Ann Sandal Miles sdbooklady@goldenwest.net (9/22/2009)
Dear Bob and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have fond memories of Arlys when she watched us after school. She always greeted us with smiles, and her sugar cookies are still the best I have ever had. She will be missed. ~ Mary Gittings Quinn Craig, CO (9/22/2009)
Bob,Molly,Kenny,BobbyGene,Randy and familys
I want you all to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Arlys was a wonderful lady and i enjoyed visiting with her. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her. God Bless you all ~ Tana O'Connor Belle Fourche (9/22/2009)
Our deepest sympathy to the family of Arlys - our thoughts and prayers will be with you all... ~ Marv & Jean Sneesby Whitewood SD 57793 (9/22/2009)
Kenny, Nancy, Jack & Donna and families
So sorry for you loss. What am emotional journey you've been on.
Know that she is no longer suffereing and is happy in the hands of God now.
Hold all of the memories dear to you heart and let them guide you thru the days ahead.
Sincere sympathy,
David, Michelle, Kelcey, Katie & Lukas Butler ~ Michelle Butler Philip (9/22/2009)
Bob & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time in your loss of Arlys. I have many fond memories from back in junior high when I stayed out at your place during the summer and helped rake hay, and the many other chores (Including Fishing). I hope it helps knowing others are thinking of you at this time. Take care and God Bless.
Jim Ahart ~ Jim Ahart Alcester SD (9/22/2009)
We were sorry to hear that Arlys had passed away-you have been in our thoughts and prayers throughout the past several days, when we knew she was ill, and even more so now. I can see her in her cap up at Milesville helping with the churchyards...
We pray for peace in your hearts-knowing she is being taken care of now. Bless you, Bob, and all her family. ~ Jason and Vonda Hamill Milesville (9/22/2009)
So sorry to hear of your loss. I will always remember Arlys as Shawn's Bible school teacher and how much he enjoyed her. She was a very special lady. With sympathy.
Bonnie ~ Bonnie Fitzgerald Memphis, TN (9/22/2009)
Bob & family, Our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Have many good memories of Aryls at church doings at Milesville. She was a great lady. God bless ~ Ralph & Cathy Fiedler 2130 Ellen St Sturgis, S. D. (9/22/2009)
Bob and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time. I have many memories of times spent at your ranch. May God grant you peace and the reassurance of life eternal. Arlys and Mom are probably catching up while enjoying their rewards in Heaven. God's blessings to all of you. ~ Betsy (Ahart) Knodel Freeman, SD (9/22/2009)
Molly and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I remember the many 4-H meetings and sleepovers at the house. Arlys always have some fun homemade activity for us to do. Molly, remember the horse show and rodoes we went to. Your mom always was so proud of you. Such great memories to have. God Bless. ~ Sheryl O'Dea Schweitzer sschweitzer@vcn.com (9/22/2009)
I first met Arlys at a dance in Milesvile many years ago when she was 16, but had not seen her in years..Will always remember the 3 little lambs Bob gave us when we lived West of Sturgis...My thoughts and Prayers go out to the Family as Arlys will be missed so much. God Bless you.. ~ Jean {Imy} Waldron Rotert Whitewood, South Dakota (9/22/2009)